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If your client has gone silent, it usually isn't personal.
Clients spend an average of just 7% of their working week engaging with all their suppliers combined, so you're a tiny fraction of their attention. The real reason your message gets ignored comes down to how valuable they perceive you to be to them right now. If your "can we have a catch up?" email doesn't promise something useful, it lands like a baby bird sitting in a tree with its beak open, waiting to be fed. And no one has time for that. This article explains why ghosting happens between projects, and what to do differently..
Let's suppose you've been working with a client for two years.
You work on a project-by-project basis. They've been pleased with the quality of what you've delivered and have had some solid results. The relationship - you think - is quite strong. The client even gave you a written testimonial once. They come to you when a need arises and you respond efficiently.
In theory, for an account manager assigned to this account, having a conversation between projects should be the easiest thing in the world. Just drop an email. Ask if they're free for a call about:
What other problems they have that you could help fix
Their marketing goals and how you could support with new ideas and thinking
What their competitors are doing differently that they need to watch
New tech in your area of expertise impacting their sector they could benefit from
New services you now offer that you didn't two years ago, and that your other clients are having huge success with
In practice, the pattern I see frequently is that it's really hard to get the client's attention. I hear it all the time from account managers:
"The client hasn't replied to two of my messages.""She's completely ghosting me.""He hasn't even acknowledged my email."
So what's going on?
Why is my client ghosting me?
Clients are under enormous pressure right now. Increasing workloads, budget restrictions, competing priorities.
According to Relationship Audits, clients spend an average of 7% of their working week engaging with all their suppliers. When your client has multiplesuppliers, you're a fraction of that 7%. A tiny part of their week.
And the CMO Survey 2026 found that "Marketers have devoted roughly twice as much time managing the present (68%) as preparing for the future (32%) every year since 2019". So clients are being pulled into short-term work, leaving less time for future-focused relationship or growth conversations.
Put those two things together and you've got a client who is rammed, drowning in delivery, and giving you a sliver of their attention at best.
Why is your message actually being ignored?
Put the obvious reasons aside. Yes, they might be knee deep in an urgent project, OOO, travelling, off sick, trapped in the lift. Those happen. But when none of those apply and you're still being ignored, it comes down to one thing.
How valuable the client perceives you to be to them at that time.
Three honest possibilities:
1. They don't see you adding value outside the project area they know you for. There's no urgent need, so a conversation feels like a waste of time. They skip the email.
2. They've never seen you demonstrate that you're at the cutting edge of what's changing in your area of expertise. Why would you have anything useful to share now?
3. They can't recall you ever asking about their KPIs, business priorities, specific business challenges, competitor pressure or customers. Every conversation has been project-related, not business-related. So the problem they're facing right now isn't something you could shed any light on anyway.
Unless the client thinks you're bringing something valuable, your "can we have a catch up?" message is akin to a baby bird in a tree with its beak open, waiting to be fed.
And no one has time for that.
How to stop being the baby bird
The account managers who don't have this problem didn't get lucky with their clients. They've built the next conversation into the one they were already having.
A few things they do differently:
They ask business questions during project conversations. Not separately. Inside the meetings that are already in the diary. While you're reviewing the latest campaign, you ask about the KPI behind it, about what the client's CEO is focused on this quarter, about the bit of their business that's a priority, a target – or a challenge. By the time the project ends, you've got three legitimate reasons to reach back out.
They send useful things between projects. A piece of competitor intelligence. A short observation on a new tech tool that's relevant to the client's sector. A summary of what they spotted at a conference. Nothing salesy. Just demonstrably useful. So when the "are you free for a call?" email lands, the client has already received four useful touchpoints from you and the request feels earned.
They have proper review conversations, not status updates. A status update tells the client what you've done. A review conversation asks what's working, what isn't, what the client is worried about, and what they need next. The first kind makes you replaceable. The second kind makes you valuable.
They build relationships beyond their main contact. When one stakeholder goes dark, they've got somewhere else to go that isn't desperate – this might not be a direct day to day contact for them but it is a relationship with another stakeholder that their boss has (much easier to pick up the phone because they already have a relationship).
What to do right now if a client is currently ghosting you
If you're reading this because a specific client has gone silent on you, here's what I'd actually do.
Stop sending "just checking in" emails. They put zero pressure on the client to reply and they signal that you have nothing else to offer.
Change the value of the touchpoint. Send something useful even if you never get a reply. Something that says I'm thinking about your business, not chasing my own.
Give them a graceful way out. If you've tried two or three useful touchpoints and still nothing, send one direct, short email:
"I haven't heard back, which is completely fine. If the timing's wrong or priorities have changed, just let me know and I'll stop chasing. If it's still on the table, happy to wait until you're ready."
Nine times out of ten, this gets a reply. You've stopped asking them to commit. You've given them permission to be honest. Even a "sorry, not now" is a result. At least you know.
Summary
Clients ghost between projects because they're drowning in present-day work and you're a small fraction of the 7% of their week they give to all their suppliers combined. Your message gets ignored when they can't see what you'd add beyond the project they already know you for. The fix is to stop being the baby bird with its beak open. Build business conversations into the project conversations you're already having. Send useful things between briefs. Run proper review conversations, not status updates. Make the next reason to talk obvious before you ever have to ask for it.
FAQ
Why do clients suddenly stop responding to emails between projects? Most of the time it's because they don't perceive enough value in the conversation to make space for it. Clients give roughly 7% of their working week to all their suppliers combined, and most of that goes on active delivery, not future-focused chats.
How long should I wait before following up with a ghosting client? Three to five working days for a first nudge. After that, change the touchpoint from chasing to giving - send something useful instead of asking for a reply.
What's the difference between a client being busy and a client ghosting me? Busy clients usually reply eventually with a quick apology or holding message. Ghosting tends to follow a pattern of silence across multiple channels with no acknowledgement, and it's often a sign your perceived value has slipped.
How do I prevent clients from ghosting me in future? Build the next conversation into the current one. Ask about KPIs, business priorities and competitor pressure while you're in project meetings. Send useful insights between projects. Run review conversations, not status updates.
Is it ever appropriate to ask a client directly if I've done something wrong? Yes. A short, direct email that gives them permission to say "not now" gets a reply far more often than another "just checking in".
We cover how to do all of this (and more) in detail inside my Account Accelerator™ programme. If you'd like more practical tips on how to retain and grow your agency clients, sign up for my weekly newsletter on the Home page.
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